Well I could sit around and make resolutions till Im blue in the face but in the past they’ve never came true.  LOL.  There are things I would like to happen in 2009, u know the usual, loose weight, have more money, get stuff paid off.  LOL.  but who doesnt want that stuff. 

The main thing I would like is to be a better person, a better wife, a better mother.  I dont think these are ever things you are finished with.  You always have room for self improvement.  Anyone that thinks they are perfect is off their rocker.  No one has the perfect life.  It may look perfect from the outside but its not.  Nothing in this world is perfect.  However no matter how bad things get for you on a particular day there is always someone out there that has it worse. 

In the new year, be thankful for the things you have and not long for the things you don’t. Life is what you make of it and karma does come around.  If you are good to others and treat people the way you would want them to treat you things will happen for you.  If you are a mean and hateful person that does everything to spite everyone else you will learn fast that you are going to get the short end of the stick.

Be happy and try to enjoy life to the fullest.  Life is too short to live it being mean and nasty.

So my husband is a big advocate of this but since when did we start using MySpace to vent our frustrations on other people?  It has become more and more that people are using this as a way to let someone else know that they are pissed off at them.  I am guilty of this myself.  However, I have tried to be better about it and not used the space to attack others. 

I wonder where the times have gone where if you have a problem with someone you just tell them.  Not attack them on your myspace or in your blog or whatever.  However if the person already knows you have a problem with them more power to you if you want to air your dirty laundry for all to see.

While it is different to just change your mood to whatever thats what you are feeling at the time but to call someone out in what you can type in the status box is just silly and not to mention something we might have done in middle school. 

My husband is on the verge of deleting his myspace due to this, while I find that silly I have started to see his point.  More and more every day it seems to be getting worse and worse.  I understand that people have to vent and they are using their myspace to do that, however some really need to practice seeing the glass half full and post about that.  Maybe you got a new sweater that day…how about you share that with the world not what a bitch so and so is. 

Ok thats my rant.  LOL.  Not that anyone is going to listen though!  LOL

Everyone has heard the saying “Karma’s a bitch,” and if you watch NBC most of you have probably seen the show “My Name is Earl.” A lot of emphasis has been put on Karma in the past couple of years since the debut of that show. The gist of it was he believed that he was hit by that car after learning he won the lottery to pay him back for all of the things he did to other people.

I must say that if you do not believe in karma you’re a fool. Usually things come back ten fold. Next time you’re bad mouthing someone or making comments you shouldnt be aware that those comments will eventually come back to you and you will have to answer for them.

We all gossip, we all repeat things that we were told. Its human nature. But when the things that were said come back to you it’s not smart to say you never said that or you didn’t do that. If the person is close to you and knows the type of person that you are they’re going to know that you are lying. It sucks when someone repeats something you have told them doesn’t it?

Its hard for a person to maintain friendships if those friendships are based on lies and talking about others. Many people, while they enjoy the gossip, will not enjoy when you turn it on them and they become your next target. There are people in this world that think they are exempt to karma and the ways of the world. They think they deserve everything handed to them and everyone should bow down to them. If life were that easy none of us would have problems would we?

So before you have your next hen party, think about karma and what you are truly doing to others by the things you are saying. Life will be pretty lonely when you are left all by yourself because you have pushed everyone away from you with your actions. It’s all fun and games until hurtful comments get back to those you made them about. Life is what you make it. Make it great!

Well yesterday was a eventful day all in itself! I learned a lot about myself and others and the ideas I had of what others should be.

But its a new day. The past is in the past and on to the future. Going forward I will not surround myself with anyone that causes drama or thinks they are superior to me. I have learned that usually those that are younger have a lot to learn and have to do that before they can lead a rich and fulfilling life. Im not saying I am perfect. I am far from that, but I also know what I was like 9 years ago and to see someone even worse than that scares the hell out of me. I do not know how a person gets filled with such hate and discontent. What has happened to them that has caused that? All I can really do is feel pity for them and hope they are able to one day see all the blessings they truly do have and enjoy life. Life is what you make it. And if you make it a 3 ring circus you have no one to blame but yourself.

In closing the website is going to change a bit. My hubby (ADMIN) tells me that mommy blogs are quite popular so I’m thinking I’m going to get the girls together and maybe we can each try to post a mommy blog every couple days. I am also going to get back to my In The News! SO much has happened in la la land since I last did one of those!

Much Love to All.

Due to some recent events there are going to be a few site changes. From now on anything that is posted will go through a moderator for approval before they are finalized and posted on the site.

The idea for drama haters was actually a joint decision between two friends but it seems to have turned into a free for all with different parties attacking one another in a non chalant way. I feel like the way the site is now it is causing more drama than it should!!! Its called Drama Haters for a reason people!!!

I want the site to be a place of fun and laughs…not a place to go post something mean if you get mad at someone. Take the drama elsewhere please! There is no room for it here!

Feel free to post just keep it clean and respectful.

They say misery loves company, that couldn’t be more true.  Amazing to me that there are people in this world so pissed off at every thing around them and are full of so much hate and discontent, the totally ignore the joyful things about life and what they have been given.

The real looser in the game of misery however are the people who are happy.  These are the ones it seems the negative miserable people of this world target. They stop at nothing to make happy people pissed off and mad at other people in their lives. It often times lead to lost love ones, friendships gone bad, and people just totally avoiding you because of the drag you are on good times.

To all who are miserable about their lives and hate what they are, better yourself and enjoy what you have.  Take the time to realize that in this world your not as important as you think you are, but you can be important to certain people if you live right.  Most people don’t want to associate themselves with people who play childish mind games, have mood radical mood swings, and constantly tell you how much better the things are they have chosen over what others have done.

If you are so much better and so damn important, why are you so fucking miserable?  Why must you make others pissed off and hate the same as you?  You can tell yourself you’re on top of the world but everyone knows your not.  You have few relationships with people in your life that don’t have conflict. 

I wish the miserable didn’t need the company of happy people.  Why cant misery love misery and leave the peaceful happy world alone.  Maybe some day the miserable will get the reality check they need and realize how fortunate they really are before its to late.  Good luck misery.

I saw this bumper sticker on the bumper sticker application on MySpace and thought it was great! “Don’t make someone a priority when they make you an option.” How true is that? How many of us have friends, co-workers and signficant others that we make such a big part of our lives but feel that they are just “throwing you a bone” by even talking to you here and there. You go around thinking you have it all together when really they only talk to you when its convienent for them!

Better yet how many of you wives feel like you give and give and give to your spouses and get nothing in return? Sure they may take out the garbage but do they give you the emotional support that you need? Help you carry in the groceries? Send you flowers for no reason at all?

Moral of the story, never place a person on a pedistal when they dont deserve it. If you know someone isnt treating you with the respect you deserve you are just as bad as they are if you let them get away with it. You cannot complain about the things you do not take the steps to change!