Everyone has heard the saying “Karma’s a bitch,” and if you watch NBC most of you have probably seen the show “My Name is Earl.” A lot of emphasis has been put on Karma in the past couple of years since the debut of that show. The gist of it was he believed that he was hit by that car after learning he won the lottery to pay him back for all of the things he did to other people.

I must say that if you do not believe in karma you’re a fool. Usually things come back ten fold. Next time you’re bad mouthing someone or making comments you shouldnt be aware that those comments will eventually come back to you and you will have to answer for them.

We all gossip, we all repeat things that we were told. Its human nature. But when the things that were said come back to you it’s not smart to say you never said that or you didn’t do that. If the person is close to you and knows the type of person that you are they’re going to know that you are lying. It sucks when someone repeats something you have told them doesn’t it?

Its hard for a person to maintain friendships if those friendships are based on lies and talking about others. Many people, while they enjoy the gossip, will not enjoy when you turn it on them and they become your next target. There are people in this world that think they are exempt to karma and the ways of the world. They think they deserve everything handed to them and everyone should bow down to them. If life were that easy none of us would have problems would we?

So before you have your next hen party, think about karma and what you are truly doing to others by the things you are saying. Life will be pretty lonely when you are left all by yourself because you have pushed everyone away from you with your actions. It’s all fun and games until hurtful comments get back to those you made them about. Life is what you make it. Make it great!

Well most households these days are two income. If you are a SAHM consider yourself one of the lucky and the few. With the rising costs of fuel, and everyday means to get by its very hard in this day and age to have one parent that stays home.

I have a friend going thru the dilema of wanting to stay home but not wanting to have to struggle to make ends meet as many one working parent homes do. Yes it is better for your kids if you are the one that is taking care of them all day. That goes without saying. No one is going to take care of your babies the way that you do. But you also want to have the means to provide for them and not be living off of state assistance or be struggling in any way.

Is there really an answer to this problem? The horror stories you hear about daycares only makes this more of an upfront problem. Just in the past two weeks two private home daycares have been shut down due to neglegance. You hear these stories and you ask yourself is my baby really safe? Makes you want to send one of them little nanny cams with him/her everyday.

I for one am a working mother. While sometimes I think it might be nice to stay at home, other times I really think I’d go insane. I LOVE MY BABY. That goes without saying. I love him to pieces but I also enjoy my time away from him. I like going to work and having that adult interaction. Does that make me a bad mother? Is it wrong that I like going to work? The sad thing is you consider work your “me” time. When really its just another headache that you have to deal with throughout the day and just someone else demanding all of your time and attention.

For those of you out there that are SAHM I do envy you. I envy you for being able to do it. I know I couldn’t. I dont know how my mom did it. I know she worked for a lot of years but when I was growing up she ran a licensed daycare out of our home and was always there to take care of me too. Looking back she seems like SUPERMOM! I’ve always said if I am half the mother my mom was then I am doing a good job. Sometimes it feels like I’m never going to get there!

So I guess the question is…What is right? I don’t think anyone can really give that answer. The experts will tell you if you can stay at home for your kids that is what is best for them and SAHM’s will argue that its the only way to do things; whereas working mothers will tell you their way is right. Its one of those grey areas that I think whatever works best for you and your family is what is right in that instance!

Well yesterday was a eventful day all in itself! I learned a lot about myself and others and the ideas I had of what others should be.

But its a new day. The past is in the past and on to the future. Going forward I will not surround myself with anyone that causes drama or thinks they are superior to me. I have learned that usually those that are younger have a lot to learn and have to do that before they can lead a rich and fulfilling life. Im not saying I am perfect. I am far from that, but I also know what I was like 9 years ago and to see someone even worse than that scares the hell out of me. I do not know how a person gets filled with such hate and discontent. What has happened to them that has caused that? All I can really do is feel pity for them and hope they are able to one day see all the blessings they truly do have and enjoy life. Life is what you make it. And if you make it a 3 ring circus you have no one to blame but yourself.

In closing the website is going to change a bit. My hubby (ADMIN) tells me that mommy blogs are quite popular so I’m thinking I’m going to get the girls together and maybe we can each try to post a mommy blog every couple days. I am also going to get back to my In The News! SO much has happened in la la land since I last did one of those!

Much Love to All.

Due to some recent events there are going to be a few site changes. From now on anything that is posted will go through a moderator for approval before they are finalized and posted on the site.

The idea for drama haters was actually a joint decision between two friends but it seems to have turned into a free for all with different parties attacking one another in a non chalant way. I feel like the way the site is now it is causing more drama than it should!!! Its called Drama Haters for a reason people!!!

I want the site to be a place of fun and laughs…not a place to go post something mean if you get mad at someone. Take the drama elsewhere please! There is no room for it here!

Feel free to post just keep it clean and respectful.

They say misery loves company, that couldn’t be more true.  Amazing to me that there are people in this world so pissed off at every thing around them and are full of so much hate and discontent, the totally ignore the joyful things about life and what they have been given.

The real looser in the game of misery however are the people who are happy.  These are the ones it seems the negative miserable people of this world target. They stop at nothing to make happy people pissed off and mad at other people in their lives. It often times lead to lost love ones, friendships gone bad, and people just totally avoiding you because of the drag you are on good times.

To all who are miserable about their lives and hate what they are, better yourself and enjoy what you have.  Take the time to realize that in this world your not as important as you think you are, but you can be important to certain people if you live right.  Most people don’t want to associate themselves with people who play childish mind games, have mood radical mood swings, and constantly tell you how much better the things are they have chosen over what others have done.

If you are so much better and so damn important, why are you so fucking miserable?  Why must you make others pissed off and hate the same as you?  You can tell yourself you’re on top of the world but everyone knows your not.  You have few relationships with people in your life that don’t have conflict. 

I wish the miserable didn’t need the company of happy people.  Why cant misery love misery and leave the peaceful happy world alone.  Maybe some day the miserable will get the reality check they need and realize how fortunate they really are before its to late.  Good luck misery.

I saw this bumper sticker on the bumper sticker application on MySpace and thought it was great! “Don’t make someone a priority when they make you an option.” How true is that? How many of us have friends, co-workers and signficant others that we make such a big part of our lives but feel that they are just “throwing you a bone” by even talking to you here and there. You go around thinking you have it all together when really they only talk to you when its convienent for them!

Better yet how many of you wives feel like you give and give and give to your spouses and get nothing in return? Sure they may take out the garbage but do they give you the emotional support that you need? Help you carry in the groceries? Send you flowers for no reason at all?

Moral of the story, never place a person on a pedistal when they dont deserve it. If you know someone isnt treating you with the respect you deserve you are just as bad as they are if you let them get away with it. You cannot complain about the things you do not take the steps to change!

     This is for all you people out there that think your child is invincible and doesn’t need a “life”. I am so sick of hearing people say things like “my child cant be around that”, “omg that’s not healthy”, “we dont take our child out of the house”. WTF? are you kidding me. I totally understand that yes, you as well as myself doesn’t like to see a child, let alone your own sick. but there’s a point to where they need to be exposed to the outside world, enabling them to grow and obtain a immune system. It’s ridiculous, yes your child may have never been sick, but what do you expect when you keep them housed, wrapped, locked up for years. Of course. Well here’s a little article i found on the net. Its from 2006 but proves a VERY good point. And for you parents out there that flip out at your child being sick, or fear of them becoming ill….Look what the further more serious effects could lead to. So put that in your juice box and drink it! ha!

Rise in Crohn’s disease blamed on cleanliness:

Parents obsessed with cleanliness might be responsible for a big increase in Crohn’s disease in children.
It is a debilitating condition that usually affects adults, but recently, the number of children getting Crohn’s has doubled.
Experts believe children are being exposed to fewer germs these days and their immune systems are weaker as a result.

Alex Herschell has had the inflammatory bowel condition, known as Crohn’s disease since she was 13.
With so many children now getting the illness, she’s started a teenage support group.
“So many more kids are getting Crohn’s and it’s being diagnosed more and more often so more kids are saying we need help, we need support,” she said.
The number of children with Crohn’s has doubled in the last five years with more pre-teens diagnosed than ever before.
The exact reasons remain a mystery. But doctors believe society’s obession with cleanliness may be to blame.
“We think if you have had infections and parasite infection in early life that protects you by stimulating the immune system,” Professor Terry Bolin, from the Gut Foundation, says.
While there’s no cure for Crohn’s disease, newer treatments that target the immune system are improving patients quality of life.
Roman Tobias has been on a new medication called Infliximab.
“It’s given me a will to live. It’s improved every aspect of my life,” he said.
“For people with severe Crohn’s disease it can offer great treatment when other medications have failed,” Dr Katie Ellard, gastroenterologist, said.
The newer drugs are not subsidised and can cost patients more than thirty thousand dollars for the three-monthly treatment.